Significant Career Lesson From An Executive Assistant At Boost VC

One lesson I've learned that's proven significant is to "let it go." In this industry, depending on your work environment, people can sometimes overexaggerate things. This can include minor details like font size, style, or color.

However, the key is to let these small things go. If you hold onto them, you can fall into a negative cycle that's difficult to escape. This is especially true if someone criticizes you harshly for something minor.

You might start doubting your abilities and question if you've made mistakes on more important tasks. This can lead to imposter syndrome and negative self-talk, which depletes your work habits and ability to perform. Essentially, you start speaking negativity into existence.

Instead, you have to keep speaking positivity into yourself, knowing you're doing your best. There are times when you'll encounter individuals who just don't understand. You might seek perspective from several colleagues to confirm your approach.

When you seek validation and others confirm your work is sound, it reinforces your efforts. Knowing you're doing your best and putting your best foot forward allows you to manifest positivity. This leads to a higher performance level.

People who succeed in life, at work, and in relationships speak into existence what they want. Moving from a negative space, even just to neutral ground, can be challenging, especially concerning self-esteem and confidence.

The most significant lesson is to silence the negative voice and speak positively. Do this even on days when you're struggling or receive criticism. Remind yourself that you are a winner, a champion, and you can overcome challenges.

Hype yourself up and push through difficult moments. Being positive builds character and leads to success. In roles like executive assisting or teaching, which can lead to burnout, it's crucial not to internalize every negative experience.

If you don't let go, these negative experiences will compound. You can't afford to do that in positions where people rely on you. Executive assistants and administrative professionals are the glue that holds the workplace together.

If you are not functioning well, the entire environment suffers. It's like a mother keeping everything together; if she's unhappy or chaotic, the world around her becomes difficult.

So, learn to let things go and push yourself through challenging moments. Even when you've made a mistake, tell yourself it's a new day, a new hour. You can start fresh at noon, even if the morning was rough.

Do this for yourself. Let things go, move on, and don't let them consume you.